Life Blog #8

I have a lot of people that inspire  me. Its hard to pin point a certain person. Even famous people.  I wouldn’t want to sound rude but part of my inspiration is to not be like my parents be more like myself and have a better life then they did. Having to not worry about a thing in life like they did. Having money problems.  Being succesful  in life is my inspiration.  

Some inspirational quotes


The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.
Robert Cushing

It is not enough to take steps which may some day lead to a goal; each step must be itself a goal and a step likewise.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Believe with all of your heart that you will do what you were made to do.
Orison Swett Marden

The Best Of Me #7

The Best of Me by: Nicholas Sparks

                I’m in love with this man. We all have bucket list he says and I have made one because of him. He is truly a woman’s dream husband. All his books revolved around her and his five children. My # 5 on my basket list is to meet Nicholas sparks. I have read almost all of his books, the newer ones I’m waiting on and this one was published in October 2011. He said “Some novels are more challenging to write than others, and The Best of Me was difficult to write.”

            “Everyone wanted to believe that endless love was possible. She’d believed in it once, too, back when she was eighteen.” This quote from the book made me realize how many people think this and want to go back o their first love. Too many people have first loves, second, third, tons of them. No one stays together forever and for those who do, we all need to ask them how? Why?  Some people can’t make it because they do not know how to compromise

             

#6 The wedding

I’ve read the wedding and some quotes that hit the heart and I want my husband to say to me if our marriage is getting rocky.

“I guess what I'm trying to say is that you are there, in everything I am, in everything I've ever done, and looking back, I know that I should have told you know much you've always meant to me. ”

Can a man say this by meaning it? I love this book and read the wedding and the notebook at least every couple years because  the romance in Nicholas sparks books are raw and vivid and you can feel like their actually  happening to you.

Another one I like from the book is when he says a man can change but in reality no one can change unless you yourself want to change and he noticed if he doesn’t change he can lose his wife the one that means the most to him.

 “Yes, I decided, a man can truly change. The events of the past year have taught me much about myself, and a few universal truths. I learned, for instance, that while wounds can be inflicted easily upon those we love, it's often much more difficult to heal them. Yet the process of healing those wounds provided the richest experience of my life, leading me to believe that while I've often overestimated what I could accomplish in a day, I had underestimated what I could do in a year. But most of all, I learned that it's possible for two people to fall in love all over again, even when there's been a lifetime of disappointment between them.”

                       

#5 Lady Di...

I read a book recently about Princess Diana Lady Di. It explains how she went though life as a princess and put on a fake smile. One thing she said will always be a reminder of her when I hear this “ Just because I was the princess of Wales, doesn’t mean I loved it all the time. You can be something that you love but hate more at times than love. All you have to do is put a fake smile on for the crowd.” She also said “kill them with kindness.” That will stay with me becaise its true, if someone is being rude to you all the time or you dilike them then kill them with kindness that’s one thing they hate is if there trying to annoy you and make you irritated, and your being yourself smiling and acting like the happiest person alive; it will annoy them because their not getting under your skin.

                My brother had also read this book and fell in love with her, for anyone that knows trevor hes an amazing person and has a few talents up his sleeves like being an artist or writing poems. He wrote this one about Princess Diana that I wanted to share with you he has another one but I forgot to borrow his copy.

A world In Mourning

By: Trevor Doell

September 6^th 1997

The world gathered for a final goodbye,

A farewell to Princess Di,

One last look at the peoples princess,

The clatter of footsteps broke the silence,walking along the

                Heirs guarding their mother.

The gun carriage moving along elegant and brave

                Approached the Abbey.

One last goodbye

Goodbye England’s Rose

Echoed through Westminster Abbey,

A final googbye to a princess,a mother,and a friend

In memory of Diana princess of Wales

Our last Angel

#4 One Day... If you had one Day with the person you love but never get together......



One day is very interesting is about these two friends Emma and Dexter. One night after graduate they decide they should meet up every year for one day on July 15. They can do whatever they wanted on that one day. They haven’t gotten together yet sense I’ve been reading it. I would like to know how this could ever work with a guy and a girl as friends I have no clue if i could spend only one day with the person that I have loved throughout high school but never get together with him. My best friend and I are going to do something like this when we graduate, were going to pick a place in the country and go meet up and catch up on life. We made if for every three years because we know life will get in the way we won’t be meet up. However I don’t think we will ever be apart that long but just for the two of us and get away of all our problems and our family just for a weekend so we can be two girls in high school again. Being a guy and a girl but loving each other for one day a year would be painful, you couldn’t have no connection there or feelings and the two of you wouldn’t be dating so he could have a wife and kids at home while he’s with you and it would hurt you and his family in the long run.

In my opinion if you like that person then be with hem, if you’re in a relationship but not happy fix it so you are happy, don’t give someone a run around because you don’t want to hurt anyone, no matter what someone does they’re going to get hurt.

#3 Does forever always last??

I’m reading a new book For Better, for Worse, Forever by: Lurlene McDaniel. This Book seems very interesting so far. About a Woman April Lancaster falling in love Mark Gianni They thought they would be together forever, however Mark died and now April is has never felt more alone. I haven’t got that far into it to tell you more. Something that stood out from me is when April was on the beach blowing up a balloon and this man Brandon Benedict was watching her. “A girl – a beautiful girl – with hair so fiery red that it glistened in the sun like sparks from a fire.”  It’s so unique that someone can describe a person’s hair like that. A question for you. How would you describe my hair? I enjoyed that little passage because it was sweet and every touching that someone can just grab words like that from the sky and make something up like that. I would like to finish this book and tell you more about it and put in catchy passages like that. She is very sad because of her boyfriend. I can relate to her about losing someone close, I’ve never lost a boyfriend however I did lose someone very close to me. I lost my step brother in May he was my best friend and He had gotten in an accident. I still have my text from my Step brother from that night before he passed. It is very hard talking about him but I’ve learned to cope because I know me crying won’t ever bring him back.

#2 “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”

I took a break from reading the dog’s purpose. I’ve been way too busy to read lately but I did read this short book Heartbeat by Danielle steel. About a married couple being successful and she ends up pregnant and the husband doesn’t want to have a kid. They end up getting a divorce and she meets this really nice man that she works with. She wants to take it slow but always puts herself down because of her husband treating her like dirt in the past. They end up getting together but the reason why I picked this is because of what he says to her “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” I know you need to have a passage but this quote really came and hit me. You wonder what he means; it can go for all kinds of things. The way I picture this quote in everyday life is women. Women try to make themselves look good for men or to other woman. Competition   is what they call it. My best friend is a person that will always tell you how it is. She never lies or hesitates she’s blunt as you can get. She said “if they don’t like you for who you are then their bad, someone will come along and look at you like you’re the only one that matters.  There are too many girls that cake makeup on all day long. Is there something wrong with natural beauty? “My best friend is  a great person to ask when you want the truth about how you look... This quote can go for anything but this is one thing that stood out to me, plus it was a topic over the weekend……

#1 The dog's Purpose

When I first picked up this book, I wondered if I would like it because it’s from a dogs point of view. This would be my first book I’ve read from an animal’s view on life. Come to find out it’s an amazing book and you can connect with them just as much as a regular person. I however did connect with this Dog Toby, he had gotten separated from his family and he was moved from his home, his boundaries to another place that he didn’t know. He didn’t know anyone and was afraid to talk to anyone... I connected with the book by myself moving from California to Missouri. I knew everyone and had friends from kindergarten, but today I only have friends from the 6^th grade. It’s a long time but not as long as 12 years. Toby learned to fit in so far, as I have learned to fit in and know mostly everyone in my graduating class. Toby is telling a story how to be free of yourself and learned to live with what you have around you. If not you will end up getting sick and tired of life. Learn to live wild and free within reason. In other words take most of your problems with a grain of salt. I think I will enjoy this book and have some real input after the last chapter. I’m looking forward to reading it... The gateways are amazing!! To connect to a book means a lot of things you’re intrigued with it and want more and get connected to your characters